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Why You’re Still Stuck in Stress & Procrastination (Even After a Holiday)—And What to Do About It

Writer: Sheryl Anne TiongsonSheryl Anne Tiongson

Are you experiencing a never ending cycle of stress and burnout?


You just had a break. You were meant to come back refreshed, ready to hit the ground running. So why does it feel like your holiday was a lifetime ago? Why does stress, procrastination, and brain fog keep creeping back in—no matter how much you try to push through?


If you’re caught in this cycle, you’re not alone. You’re not lazy, unmotivated, or a low achiever (even if that voice in your head tries to convince you otherwise). You’re experiencing burnout, presenteeism, and a disconnect between what you know you can do and what actually gets done.


No amount of time off will fix it unless you address what’s really going on beneath the surface.



Why Your Brain Won’t Let You Move Forward (Even When You Want To)


Burnout, stress, and procrastination aren’t just about workload—they’re about how your brain processes energy, focus, and emotional resistance.


1️. Executive Dysfunction: The Invisible Roadblock

Ever feel like you just can’t start, even though you know you can do the task?

That’s not because you’re bad at your job or lack motivation. It’s because your executive function is overloaded—your brain is struggling to prioritize, initiate, and sustain effort, making even small tasks feel impossible to begin.


This is especially common in high-achieving individuals with ADHD traits—your brain craves structure but resists rigid systems, leaving you trapped in a cycle of knowing what needs to be done but feeling unable to do it.


2️. The Stress-Procrastination Loop

Do you overthink instead of taking action?

This is your nervous system stuck in a stress loop—your brain protecting you from perceived threats (even if that "threat" is just answering an email). Your brain has learned that certain tasks trigger stress, so it convinces you to delay them to avoid discomfort.


But delaying creates more stress, reinforcing the loop.


3️. Why Does Everything Feel Harder After a Break?

Why does everything feel overwhelming when you return from holiday?

Because your patterns didn’t reset—they just paused. Without habit rewiring and emotional alignment, your brain defaults back to what it knows—procrastination, self-doubt, and pushing through exhaustion.




How Coaching Helps Break the Stress Cycle (Where Everything Else Has Failed)


Traditional stress management tells you to “just rest” or “take breaks.” But if that worked, you wouldn’t still be stuck.


Here’s how my approach is different:

✅ We identify the real blocks—the subconscious habits, thought patterns, and nervous system responses that keep pulling you back into stress and procrastination.

✅ We rewire your habits using proven transformation techniques like Shadow Values, visualization, and Imaginaction—helping you make changes at the root, not just the surface.

✅ We blend coaching with holistic wellness—because stress isn’t just mental. It’s physiological. Nutrition, movement, and nervous system regulation play a huge role in breaking free from burnout.



Case Study: How One Client Transformed Her Life in 8 Weeks


The Problem: A client came to me completely stuck. She knew she was capable but couldn’t take action. Every time she tried to move forward, self-doubt and procrastination crept in.


The Breakthrough: Through coaching, she uncovered that her procrastination wasn’t about laziness—it was a response to a subconscious fear from childhood. In school, she was told she wasn’t “good enough,” and without realizing it, she had carried that belief into her adult life.


The Result: In just 8 weeks, she rewired that pattern, reclaimed her confidence, and started pursuing the career growth she thought she had lost passion for. Now? She’s leading projects she once doubted she could handle.




How to Start Making the Shift Now


If you’re ready to break free from stress, procrastination, and burnout, here are 3 things you can start doing today:


1. Become Aware of Your Triggers

Notice when you’re avoiding a task—what thought or emotion comes up? Awareness is the first step to breaking the cycle.


2. Rewrite the Narrative

That voice in your head saying you’re not capable? It’s not yours. Identify where it came from (old experiences, external pressure) and actively replace it with a new belief: I am capable. I am in control.


3. Take One Small Action

Overwhelm feeds inaction. Break it down. Instead of thinking, I need to finish this whole report, say, I’ll draft the first two bullet points. Momentum creates motivation.




You’re Not Broken—But Your Approach to Change Might Be


The voices in your head telling you that you’re failing? They’re wrong. You don’t need more time off, more pressure, or another productivity hack.


You need a new way to approach stress, habits, and energy—one that works with your brain, not against it.


If you’re ready to break free from stress, procrastination, and burnout, let’s chat.

Because lasting change starts with one shift. And that shift starts now.

 
 
 

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